Friday, 20 September 2013

Does An Heartbroken Poem to Bring You Back Together?

If you've written a heartbroken poem because you're separated from your loved one, it potentially could bring you back together. Writing poetry is a good way to deal with a break up because it coming from a place of love. And if you write a really touching heartbroken poem, you might impress your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend with how much you really care.

Don’t rush to write the poem the moment you break up.   A heartbroken poem, to be genuine, is something that will probably take at least a little time to write.  Take some consideration and ponder your feelings and then start writing.

You aren’t going to want to just jot down anything that comes to your mind and start reading it out loud to your ex.  If you do this it will come across as false, deceitful and not genuine.  You want this to be genuine if it's going to help you get back together. 

Remember, you don't have to be a great poet to write a heartfelt poem that can move your ex and make them see things in a different light. So if you've never written a poem before in your life, don’t worry. It's not that difficult to write from a poem from your heart.  Just decide to do it and you will soon realize how easy it is to write.  The hardest part is to start.  Once you begin to write it will probably start to flow more naturally. 

First, just think about how you feel.  Check your emotions. Of course you'll feel things like sadness or hurt. But if you can compare that to something else rather than just say you're sad or hurt, it makes a more powerful poem. Likening a flooding rain to all the tears you've cried is better than just saying "I've cried a lot." Comparing tears to rain is a little cliché, but it gives you the general idea of how you should use metaphors to make the writing better and add depth and meaning.  

In the poem, tell your ex what's different about your life without them, and how you'd like to have them back. You can list the reasons, as long as they're valid ones that your ex might want to hear.
If you've not written much or any poetry, then don't worry about rhyming. Modern poetry rarely rhymes unless it's for comic effect. Just write kind of like you speak, but with metaphor and words that bring up a mental picture as you read. 

You must be brutally honest when writing the poem. It might make you a bit uncomfortable but this is rather important. Do remember if you won't be there when your ex reads the poem, it's easier to say things you might worry about saying in person, because there can't be an immediate rejection. So say what you want to say. 

It might not be easy to write something like that to give to your ex. You might worry that they'll think it's silly. But you'll always know that you tried.  Even if your heartbroken poem doesn’t change anything, at least you fought for what you wanted.

If you have tried to write a poem to win back your ex- if you care to share we would love to hear if worked or not

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