We all have emotions (Love, hate, fear etc) and love is the
strongest passion of them all. Love as
they say conquers all. Therefore, when love dies, it may seem fatal and
devastating. But there are ways to win
back lost love. This piece will look at
five strategies to pursue when you are trying to get your lover back.
First and foremost you need to be honest to yourself and to
each other. If there were underlying
problems in your relationship, it is essential that you address them
immediately. For instance, if housework
was a big issue, you need to address it before you can get back together. If you are messy and your ex was a neat
freak, it can cause a considerable amount of stress and strain in the
relationship. If one person felt they
were doing all the housework, it can rock the boat. Finances are another area where there can be
strain. To win back lost love, you have
to address these areas before you get back together.
Next, you need to be a dependable and reliable person. If you have broken up already, you need to be
dependable as an ex. You need to be
there when he or she needs you, even though you no longer have a
“responsibility” to. For instance, if
she’s moving, lend a helping hand and your truck. If he/she needs someone to type his/her resume,
do it.
Third, encourage your ex.
One of the things people miss when they break up is the encouragement
their partner gives them. So, to win
back lost love, try to find out where they are discouraged and cheer them
up. If they are having a performance
review at work, send an email timed to get there right before the meeting. If they are singing a solo at church, showing
up uninvited will not only be a breath of fresh air but also moral support.
Fourth, if he/she rings lend a listening ear. Most of the time after a break up, there is
some level of communication. Often, this
degenerates into fights. But, if you
really listen to the things your ex is telling you, you may be able to figure
out a way to get back into their life.
Encourage them to share their problems with you. Don’t try to solve them. Just let them express their concerns. Be a sounding board.
Fifth, don’t sit on the sidelines or on the fence. Life is meant to be played on the playing
field. If you sit on the sidelines, it’s
likely that someone else will become the quarterback of their life. Don’t give up on the relationship unless you
are ready to move on yourself. Things
are not going to get better on their own.
You have to go out and make things better.
If you want to win back lost love, employ these five steps
as part of your action plan to win back their heart. You have to be proactive. The most important thing is to really care
about your ex and to show him or her that you do care. You shouldn’t be worried if they date other
people because they will come back to you if you are the right person for them.
You should know that it is possible to win back lost love. Now go out there and do it!
If this article has helped you in any way do share it and
leave me your worst break up story and how you manage to get back together.
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