Wednesday, 18 September 2013

4 Tips To Help Save Your Marriage

There are 4 excellent tips to help save marriage. The following tips aren't terribly difficult to do, and they’re all very inexpensive. They’re simply common sense things anyone can apply to help save a relationship or marriage. Yet many people won’t try them, not even to save marriage.

The first tip is to just stop arguing. How are is that? Every time your partner says something that you want to get grumpy with or correct, just learn to let it go. By doing this you’re doing yourself a huge favor. When one person can have learned to let things start rolling off his/her back, the other one will follow suit. Trust me this is easy..

To help save your marriage, you are probably going to have to be the one to learn to let things slide by. You never know, your partner might be working on the same skills at the same time. But no matter how badly both people want to save the marriage, usually only one person is working on trying to keep the peace. Sadly but true..

If your partner thinks that shirt is blue when it’s really an odd creamy white, just think in your head “it’s creamy white!” but let it go. It comes down to this. You must make the decision that you want help save your marriage and that’s more important than always being right about everything, or looking for the negative in every situation or comment.

The next thing to do is start dating again. What you said!! Even if you’re not actually dating and going out together, you have to approach your relationship as if it’s new and you have just started dating. This is not always easy, especially if you’ve been in a relationship for a long time.  But this step is absolutely necessary .

We all have a different perspective or views on our partners when the relationship is new. Everything‘s fresh and more exciting. After a while that freshness wears off and we start to get bored. Some call it routine and familiarity, but most people call it boring, mundane and predictable.

If you want to help save marriage, then make sure it isn’t as boring and predictable as it has been. Surprise your partner with a special night out.  Don't have to be the hottest club (and make sure you can reschedule, just in case he/she cannot go).

The third step is to love your partner in the way he or she wants to be loved. We all have things that make us happiest. Some like to be told that they’re loved constantly .Others find small gestures like you offering your gloves to them on a cold day to be the greatest things ever.  These subtle caring action win you brownie points.

Some might think that changing the oil on the car for them is a supreme act of love, while others just want to be told “I love you” so they can feel cherished. The point is, your hours of loving your partner will be twice as effective if you do the things that you know make them happy.

Finally, be physically affectionate. Love and marriage aren’t all about sex, but it’s still important. If you want to help save marriage, you’ll hug and kiss you partner many times throughout the day for no reason at all.

Studies have show that more affectionate we are it develops a stronger bond.

Do leave me your feed backs and let help each other through these trying times.  Let LOVE LIVE

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