Hey Guys Yesi here with another interesting read. We all know relationships are complex thing and breakups are definitely not easy to deal with. So I just though I would share with you and interesting piece that I found written by Tdub on what Top mistakes men make after a woman breaks up with them: I hope you find it inspiring and helpful.
1. Going overboard on flowers, presents, and other “bribes” to get her back.
2. Trying to explain all the reasons why you cheated or otherwise messed up.
3. Promising her that things will be different next time.
4. Playing the “depressed” card in order to get her attention.
5. Calling her friends and family and trying to manipulate your way back.
6. Failing to offer a sincere apology if you’ve done something to break the relationship.
7. Not allowing her to be angry and upset about your mistakes (if you made some).
8. Trying to “guilt” her into taking you back.
9. Using drugs, alcohol, or “revenge/rebound” sex to make the pain go away.
10. Not addressing the real problems in the relationship.
What can you do NOW… After The Break Up?
You’re not the only one struggling to get your ex back.
In fact, you’ve probably looked at lots of online information, or read books and talked to people, and very little of it has been helpful. Too many so-called “self help” products focus on the wrong things, and while they can be useful in some ways, you’re not looking for a LITTLE bit of help, you need a system-wide solution that you can TRUST will absolutely do the job.
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You already know the top 20 mistakes not to make, but now you need to be able to work quickly toward the recovery of your relationship.
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And the third step is the single most counter-intuitive one of all of them…
Agree to the breakup. . .
That’s right, and it’s not quiiiite as simple or straightforward as it sounds. But you need to stop pushing so hard against your ex so that the pressure is relieved and you both can begin to move forward again.
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