If you've written a heartbroken poem because you're separated from your loved one, it potentially could bring you back together. Writing poetry is a good way to deal with a break up because it coming from a place of love. And if you write a really touching heartbroken poem, you might impress your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend with how much you really care.
Don’t rush to write the poem the moment you break up. A
heartbroken poem, to be genuine, is something that will probably take at least
a little time to write. Take some
consideration and ponder your feelings and then start writing.
You aren’t going to want to just jot down anything that
comes to your mind and start reading it out loud to your ex. If you do this it will come across as false, deceitful
and not genuine. You want this to be
genuine if it's going to help you get back together.
Remember, you don't have to be a great poet to write a
heartfelt poem that can move your ex and make them see things in a different
light. So if you've never written a poem before in your life, don’t worry. It's not that difficult to write from a poem from your
heart. Just decide to do it and you will
soon realize how easy it is to write.
The hardest part is to start.
Once you begin to write it will probably start to flow more naturally.
First, just think about how you feel. Check your emotions. Of course you'll feel
things like sadness or hurt. But if you can compare that to something else
rather than just say you're sad or hurt, it makes a more powerful poem.
Likening a flooding rain to all the tears you've cried is better than just
saying "I've cried a lot." Comparing tears to rain is a little cliché, but it gives you
the general idea of how you should use metaphors to make the writing better and
add depth and meaning.
In the poem, tell
your ex what's different about your life without them, and how you'd like to
have them back. You can list the reasons, as long as they're valid ones that
your ex might want to hear.
If you've not written much or any poetry, then don't worry
about rhyming. Modern poetry rarely rhymes unless it's for comic effect. Just
write kind of like you speak, but with metaphor and words that bring up a
mental picture as you read.
You must be brutally honest when writing the poem. It might
make you a bit uncomfortable but this is rather important. Do remember if you
won't be there when your ex reads the poem, it's easier to say things you might
worry about saying in person, because there can't be an immediate rejection. So
say what you want to say.
It might not be easy to write something like that to give to
your ex. You might worry that they'll think it's silly. But you'll always know
that you tried. Even if your heartbroken
poem doesn’t change anything, at least you fought for what you wanted.
If you have tried to write a poem to win back your ex- if
you care to share we would love to hear if worked or not
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